How to Overcome the Enemy
For it was not an enemy who reproached and taunts me, then I might bear it… Psalm 55:12-13
Words are powerful, destructive, and so very painful. And the enemy uses those who are closest to us to speak out hurtful words because he wants to get a “close up” shot, one that will do some damage. He uses their knowledge of the past and words that are connected to that painful event. So, every painful event that has not been healed is his target. A profound truth on how to overcome the enemy is you must work through all the wounded areas of your heart and remove all access points by grieving the losses.
It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart. Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better. The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth. Ecclesiastes 7:2-4
You can be very strong in the Lord until it comes to a place where you have experienced losses. It is in these times of loss that we get hurt and even angry at God because we can’t understand why things happen the way they do. We can even begin to doubt His love and protection with questions like: why did it have to happen to me? Why didn’t God stop it? Why was I the one that had to suffer this way?
All these questions must be wrestled with and resolved as you go through the process of grieving the losses and releasing the pain. Grieving Losses is necessary for your heart to heal through His Word and be restored by His Love.